Hertfordshire stands up for the 16 Days of Action: Rural domestic abuse sufferers face barriers many never see
To raise awareness and show community solidarity, CDA Herts is inviting residents to join a series of short walks across Dacorum during the 16 Days of Action. Each walk is a visible reminder that rural communities are united against domestic abuse. Everyone is welcome and every step sends a message of support to those who feel isolated.
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Domestic abuse happens everywhere, but for people living in Hertfordshire’s rural villages the challenges can be far greater. As the 16 Days of Action campaign begins, local organisations are urging residents to recognise the unique pressures facing sufferers in isolated communities.
In many villages public transport is limited, phone signal can be unreliable and support services may be miles away. For someone trying to reach a safe place or make a confidential call, these gaps can be life changing. When a partner controls the only car in the household, leaving home becomes even harder.
Village life brings its own pressures. Close communities can offer warmth and support, but they can also make it difficult to speak out. Many people fear that everyone will know their situation or that reporting abuse will lead to gossip or judgement. If the abuser is well known locally, the fear of not being believed grows even stronger.
Domestic abuse affects men too. Although most victims are women, many men in Hertfordshire also experience control, intimidation and violence behind closed doors. In rural areas men can face additional pressure to stay silent because of stigma, pride or fear they won’t be taken seriously. The message of the 16 Days of Action is clear: anyone can be a sufferer and everyone deserves support.
Housing is another barrier. Affordable options are scarce in many parts of Dacorum, East Herts, North Herts and St Albans district. For some sufferers the threat of losing their home and community becomes another reason they feel trapped. On farms and tied homes people often fear losing both their job and their home if they try to escape.
Help is always available. The Herts Domestic Abuse Helpline offers free confidential support on 08 088 088 088.
Hertfordshire’s strength lies in its communities. By listening, learning and standing together, we can make sure no one faces abuse alone, no matter how rural their home may be.
Find out more CDAHerts.org.uk/16days